How to Make Friends in a New City

Make Friends in a New City QUICKLY! My tried and true tips and tricks to making connections after a big move.

I made the big announcement in my last post that I moved to a new city! It has been the biggest, greatest adventure. Making friends was the one and only thing I was nervous about when moving out of state to a city where I knew absolutely no one.

I worried that I would have no way to meet people. I worried that people wouldn’t be friendly and eager to form a new friendship.

Let me just say this: I was so, so wrong.

I have been in my new city for less than a month, and I have already developed friendships. Obviously I haven’t made a “best” friend. How could I in a month?! What I have done is create connections around the city and developed friendships that I know will blossom into even more serious friendships.

Honestly, making friends in a new city by myself has been way easier than I anticipated.

If you’re moving to a new city, making new friends can be easy for you as well. I’m not special! I didn’t do anything crazy or unique. If you’re preparing to move and are worried, don’t be. If you’re thinking about moving to a new place but are hesitant because you don’t know anyone, don’t be!

You can make friends in a new city.

Moving into Your First Apartment

How to choose your first apartment, prepare for moving into your first apartment and move into your first apartment- or your second, third or fourth.

I have successfully made it through my first apartment lease and am anxiously awaiting my next. Living in my first apartment proved to be one of the best experiences I’ve ever had. I loved the feeling of finding a home, taking care of a place and feeling like it was my own.

Last year around this same time, I wrote Moving into Your First College Apartment for the OCM Blog. Since then I have only gained more helpful hints and tricks, so I’m editing and adding onto my first apartment guide here today!

Next-Gen Social Network

MeWe Next-Gen Social Network is the only social media network that has a Privacy Bill of Rights for its members. Can you believe that?

Guess what? I have exciting news! I joined the latest social media network: MeWe. The app just announced its launch on March 9 of this year, and it is already making a big impact. I honestly did not see myself joining another social media site anytime soon. I already manage a lot of social media sites between my blog and internship; I have so much going on, I don’t even have personal social media accounts anymore!

When I heard about MeWe, however, I knew I wanted to join, and I had two very good reasons. The first was that MeWe has multiple features that combine the functions of other social media sites, which makes it convenient. All of your favorite sharing tools are in one place. Some of my favorites are:

MeWe Next-Gen Social Network is the only social media network that has a Privacy Bill of Rights for its members. Can you believe that?

The first thing that I did after joining MeWe was create a group for you guys. The Ali in Bloom public group is just another way to stay up to date on new content. I will be posting about my latest blog posts, new Youtube videos, pictures that didn’t make it onto the blog, and behind-the-scenes fun! Even better, the group has its own personal chat room, so if you want to connect more personally with me or ask any questions that you might have about posts, a topic I’ve covered, my blog or life in general, you can connect with me quickly and easily there in the group chat- or private chat! A lot of you reach out on Facebook and Instagram, and I try to respond to each and every one of you. Having all of this communication streamlined into one app makes it way easier and faster for me to get back to all of you though. Connecting with readers is one of my favorite things about blogging, and I only hope that joining MeWe means I can hear from even more of you!

MeWe Next-Gen Social Network is the only social media network that has a Privacy Bill of Rights for its members. Can you believe that?

The second and honestly the biggest reason that I wanted to join MeWe was because it offers me something that no other social media can: privacy. You might think that sounds silly. I do post a lot about my life on the internet, so you might be thinking privacy isn’t my biggest concern, but I’m actually very particular about how much I do and do not share on my blog and social media channels. I like the option of being able to share what I want, and I don’t like the idea of anyone storing or owning my personal data. The goal is to share my life with you- not random third parties.

MeWe is the only social media network that has a Privacy Bill of Rights for its members. Can you believe that? I honestly had no idea that other social networks were so open and free with collecting and giving away our information, but I’m glad that I know now. Knowing that I have privacy and safety on MeWe means that I’ll be using MeWe as a way to share inside sneak peaks into my life! This doesn’t mean that I’m going to stop using other social media sites- not at all. This just means that I get to share more and be more comfortable sharing more with you all on MeWe!

Wondering why other social media networks are so unsafe? I’m no expert- even after hours of research, but some other bloggers who joined MeWe are spilling the beans. Here are other great blog posts to read on the privacy issues with other social networking sites:

The Really Bad News About Facebook (and What to do About it)

Why You Should Kick Facebook to the Curb (and Where You Should Go Instead)

Will you join MeWe and be a part of the Next-Gen Social Network? How do you feel about the lack of privacy on other social media networks? I want to know! Let me know in the comment section below.

Tested Interview Tips to Get Hired

Simple Interview Tips to Get Hired. You can take actionable steps before, during, and after the interview that will help you get hired.

I can’t claim to be an expert at finding a job or on how to get hired. I have landed a few positions and internships in my past, but now as I am starting my interview process over again to find a job post-grad, even I have had a few failed interviews; from those, however, I was able to learn from my mistakes and grow as a person and potential employee. I spent several hours researching interview etiquette, interview questions and answers, and general tips after my fumbles. Now, I want to share the knowledge I have accumulated over my professional and academic experience in a simple, straight-to-the-point way to help prevent you from having to spend hours scouring the internet for help.  Without experience and practice, interviews can be intimidating and nerve-wracking. If there is one thing I have learned over the years, however, it’s that with preparation, you have nothing to worry about. You can take actionable steps before, during, and after the interview that will help you get hired.

Before the Interview

Perfect Your Resume. 

  • Proofread your resume to make sure you have no typos. I know that during the job hunt, you can spend a lot of type writing, typing, and editing – emails, cover letters, and resume changes. If you are feeling burnt out and the words are just starting to blur together from rereading so many times, ask a friend or family member to help you look over your materials. They don’t have to be into grammar or English or have any type of editing experience. Having a fresh set of eyes regardless will help catch mistakes you didn’t the first time. Avoiding typos will demonstrate to your future employer that you pay attention to details and value accuracy.
  • Exchange dull, boring verbs and adjectives for descriptive word choices that highlight exactly what you did in your position.
  • Be specific. Add facts, data, and accomplishments. Give hard facts that demonstrate your success. It’s like they always said in high school English class: “show, don’t tell” in writing.

Research the company as thoroughly as possible; it’s impossible to over prepare. For my interviews, I generally scope out:

  • the company website
  • the company social media channels (including the company LinkedIn page)
  • and read reviews and interviews for the company on Glassdoor.

Make sure you also know the ins and outs of the job description. Knowing the position like the back of your hand will enable you to highlight the characteristics most important to the position during your interview and highlight how your previous work experience has prepared you for this specific role and avoid making general statements about your personality.

Research the interviewer if you know his/her name. Knowing your interviewers role in the company will give you helpful background information to know what questions they may be able to answer and if you would be working directly with them. Researching the interviewer will help you avoid an awkward “wait…who are you?” moment.  Your best bet for finding out position and responsibilities is LinkedIn.

Simple Interview Tips to Get Hired. You can take actionable steps before, during, and after the interview that will help you get hired.

Know where you are going.

  • Write down the address.
  • Print out old fashioned Map Quest directions.
  • Make sure your phone is charged if you are using it as a GPS and pack a phone charger for the road.
  • Look up an image of the outside of the building so that you know what you are looking for when you arrive.
  • Figure out where you will park if parking is not available. You may be interested in asking your company contact their opinion on where to park. Of course, they do work there. They would know what your best option is.

If your interview is in the area and it is possible, it would even be a good idea to take a practice trip the day before your interview.

Prepare your answers for the common interview questions. Know how you are going to answer:

  • “Tell me about yourself.”
  • “What is your greatest strength/weakness?”
  • “Why should we hire you?”
  • “Why do you want to work for our company?”
  • “Why do you want to work in (insert field here)?”
  • “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”

There are a large number of resources on the internet about how to answer specific interview questions. My advice to you is just to be careful that you don’t sound like you’re reading those answers word for word. The interviewer wants to get a sense of who you are- not what you read on the internet. Answer the questions truthfully and according to who you are, how you feel, and based on the role you are applying for.

Also make sure that you have specific situations in mind for requests such as:

  • “Tell me about a time you made a mistake.”
  • “Tell me about a time you failed.”
  • “Tell me about your greatest accomplishment.”
  • “Tell me about a time you disagreed with your boss.”

These questions are a little bit harder to find examples for on the internet since they are highly personal, but there are still great resources out there. My personal advice is to make sure that you are honest and real. It’s okay to admit that you failed, but it is important to show how you have grown from it, what you learned, and how it has helped you in your career.

Other helpful resources on preparing your interview answers:

“Tell Me About Yourself” Answers (Examples Included)

31 Most Common Interview Questions and Answers

During the Interview

Dress professionally. Each company has its own policy on dress code, so if you are worried about what to wear, don’t hesitate to ask your company contact what the appropriate attire is. If you get a generic “business casual” response and still are unsure, in the past I have even been able to do my own research. I have found pictures of the employees in the office on the company LinkedIn page and social media accounts and have based my outfit around them. Your best bet, however, is to always be over dressed as compared to underdressed. If you find an image of the employees in jeans, assume it was casual Friday, and still dress professionally.

Want to know a fun fact about dressing for an interview? The best colors to wear to an interview are blue and black, and the worst color to wear is orange.

If you need more inspiration, I just posted my office lookbook over on my Youtube channel that highlights my favorite office looks!

Show up early. Showing up early will help you in a number of ways. You’ll look punctual to your future employer, and you will be much more relax if you’re not running through the door at the last minute to make your interview in time. Take the extra few minutes to adjust any stray hairs, remember what you want to say, and just relax and absorb your surroundings.

When showing up early, avoid playing on your phone to pass the time. You never know who is paying attention or notices you. It is much better to look attentive, present, and ready to go at any moment.

Ask questions if the interviewer asks if you have any questions… and even if they don’t. Asking questions helps show that you are interested in the position. Some of my favorite questions (although they vary based on position) are:

  • “What does a typical day in this position look like?”
  • “What is the next step in the process?”
  • “When is the expected start date for this position?”
  • “How can I be successful in this role?”
  • “Does this role require primarily independent work or collaboration?”

I would avoid asking any questions that are answered in the job description. Be wary of this; it may seem like you didn’t study the job description well enough, which in turn makes you look uninterested.

Ask honest questions. Going to an interview helps you get to know the company as much as it helps the company get to know you. If you are wondering something, ask- as long as it is appropriate, professional, and doesn’t reflect negatively on you as a candidate.

After the Interview

Simple Interview Tips to Get Hired. You can take actionable steps before, during, and after the interview that will help you get hired.

Send a thank you note to the interviewer in the mail or via email after you finish your interview. Although I’m sure you thanked the interviewer for his/her time before ending the interview, it never hurts to go the extra mile to follow up and express your interest and gratitude one last time. The little things matter when trying to land a new job.

Other helpful resources on sending a thank you note after your interview:

22 Thank You Note Tips That Will Get You the Job

Sample Job Interview Thank You Email

There is no doubt that getting hired requires more than just a well prepared and beautifully executed interview. It requires being the right fit and having the needed experience and skill set. But if you fit the criteria for the position and have the relevant, necessary experience, nailing your interview will get you hired in no time.

What do you get most nervous about for an interview? What is the most unexpected question you have been asked in an interview? What is your go-to interview outfit? I want to know! Let me know in the comment section below.